Ignore what others may be thinking of you， because they aren’t.

Sometimes you have to lose yourself before you can find anything.

"The great advantage of being a writer is that you can spy on people. You're there, listening to every word, but part of you is observing. Everything is useful to a writer, every scrap, even the longest and most boring of luncheon parties."

灵魂的净化比身体的净化更重要。