问题不在于事物是否存在,而在于它是否具有能够在没有我们的情况下存在的本质。
如果你想领导别人,你必须先学会跟随。
没有人能为你建造那座你必须独自跨越生命之河的桥梁。
When you forgive others, they may not notice, but you will heal. Forgiveness is not something we do for others; it is a gift to ourselves.
如果我们相信数据结构,就必须相信独立的(因此同时进行)处理。为什么我们还要在结构内收集物品?我们为什么要容忍一种语言而没有另一种语言呢?
I keep thinking about this river somewhere, with the water moving really fast. And these two people in the water, trying to hold onto each other, holding on as hard as they can, but in the end it’s just too much. The current’s too strong. They’ve got to let go, drift apart.