The mother-child relationship is paradoxical and, in a sense, tragic. It requires the most intense love on the mother's side, yet this very love must help the child grow away from the mother, and to become fully independent.
母子关系是矛盾的，在某种意义上，是悲剧性的。它需要母亲最强烈的爱，然而这种爱必须帮助孩子离开母亲，变得完全独立。
Art is the only way to run away without leaving home.
在远处防守不如在近处防守，把守太繁琐不如把守要塞，用常法把守不如用出奇制胜的方法，把守宽阔的地方不如把守狭窄的地方，在深处把守不如在浅处把守。