独处的能力就是爱的能力。这对你来说可能看起来矛盾,但并非如此。这是一个存在的真理:只有那些能够独处的人,才能爱,分享,进入另一个人最深的核心——而不占有对方,不依赖对方,不将对方物化,不对对方上瘾。
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
世界不是由那些正确的人运行的。它是由那些能说服别人他们正确的人运行的。
The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today.
每一本书都是一段旅程,而每一段旅程都会让你有所改变。
过去不在我们身后,而在我们之内。