独处的能力就是爱的能力。这对你来说可能看起来矛盾,但并非如此。这是一个存在的真理:只有那些能够独处的人,才能爱,分享,进入另一个人最深的核心——而不占有对方,不依赖对方,不将对方物化,不对对方上瘾。
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
One day in perfect health is far better than an eternity in any other state.
The measurement problem in quantum mechanics is not a flaw in the theory, but a profound insight into the nature of reality.
我们必须相信自己天生适合做某事,无论付出什么代价,都必须实现这一目标。
生命短暂,你永远不知道什么时候会结束,所以你必须抓住每一个机会并全力以赴。
凡是创作古文,必须推究前代文章的本意,以此形成自己的言论。