独处的能力就是爱的能力。这对你来说可能看起来矛盾,但并非如此。这是一个存在的真理:只有那些能够独处的人,才能爱,分享,进入另一个人最深的核心——而不占有对方,不依赖对方,不将对方物化,不对对方上瘾。
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
Conflict is the gadfly of thought. It stirs us to observation and memory. It instigates to invention. It shocks us out of sheeplike passivity, and sets us at noting and contriving.
I am a fighter, and I love a challenge.
Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.
I believe that if you keep your faith, you keep your trust, you keep the right attitude, if you're grateful, you'll see God open up new doors.
金钱使一切复杂化。
真相并不总是美丽的,美丽的言辞也不总是真相。