"In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends."
心理学的方法必须是客观的,即使研究主观现象时也是如此。
You can tell more about a person by what he says about others than you can by what others say about him.  
I'm a strong believer in karma.
And when they leave,they take your life of details with them. You are expected to move on again, but you don't remember what it was that moved you, because no one's asked you in so long. Not even yourself.
The body remembers what the mind forgets.