You are too generous to trifle with me. If your feelings are still what they were last April, tell me so at once. My affections and wishes are unchanged, but one word from you will silence me on this subject forever.
你必须强迫自己考虑相反的观点。特别是当它们挑战你最钟爱的想法时。
To understand is to forgive, even when understanding is hardest to come by.