There is nothing more interesting to people than their own problems. Think about what others are dealing with, and try to come up with ideas to help them. Almost anyone, however senior or important, is receptive to new ideas provided they are thoughtful.
人们总觉得最有意思的话题就是与自己相关的话题。所以,要善于分析他人的问题所在,并尝试提出办法来帮助他人。几乎所有的人,无论他声名多么显赫、地位多么高贵,都愿意接受新的想法,当然,前提是这些想法必须经过深思熟虑。
我不得不提醒自己,有些鸟是不能关在笼子里的,他们的羽毛太漂亮了,当他们飞走的时候…你会觉得把他们关起来是种罪恶,但是,他们不在了你会感到寂寞,可是我只是想我的朋友了…
I’d rather be respected than liked.
真正的竞争总是在你已经完成的事情和你能够做到的事情之间。你衡量自己,只与自己比较,而不是别人。