积极性让我们变得更好。通过打开我们的心灵和思想，积极情绪让我们能够发现和建立新的技能、新的联系、新的知识和新的存在方式。

对于你所拥有的，要心存感激，这样你就会拥有更多。对于你所没有的，如果不停强调，你永远都不会满足。

I have a vivid memory of what happened， and it was not what I expected. I expected to be applauded for my cleverness and arithmetic skills. "Jeff， you're so smart. You had to have made some tricky estimates， figure out the number of minutes in a year and do some division." That's not what happened. Instead， my grandmother burst into tears. I sat in the backseat and did not know what to do. While my grandmother sat crying， my grandfather， who had been driving in silence， pulled over onto the shoulder of the highway. He got out of the car and came around and opened my door and waited for me to follow. Was I in trouble？ My grandfather was a highly intelligent， quiet man. He had never said a harsh word to me， and maybe this was to be the first time？ Or maybe he would ask that I get back in the car and apologize to my grandmother. I had no experience in this realm with my grandparents and no way to gauge what the consequences might be. We stopped beside the trailer. My grandfather looked at me， and after a bit of silence， he gently and calmly said， "Jeff， one day you'll understand that it's harder to be kind than clever."

A man can no more diminish God's glory by refusing to worship Him than a lunatic can put out the sun by scribbling the word 'darkness' on the walls of his cell.

译文：读书学习不愿意下苦功夫，就妄想获得显贵荣华，天下哪有这样的道理？对人没有一点好口碑，却想得到福分和吉祥，敢问它从何得到呢？赏析：不管是读书还是创业，如果不下苦功夫，哪里会容易取得成功呢？要想赢得别人的尊重，自己就要树立好的口碑。

I can’t help it, I love you.