一朵想成为红玫瑰的玫瑰并不自私，要是它希望花园里所有的花朵都成为红玫瑰，那自私才真正吓人。

Society can and does execute its own mandates， and if it issues wrong mandates instead of right， or any mandates at all in things with which it ought not to meddle， it practices a social tyranny more formidable than many kinds of political oppression， since， though not usually upheld by such extreme penalties， it leaves fewer means of escape， penetrating much more deeply into the details of life， and enslaving the soul itself.

压力是一种特权。

爱是不够的，它需要被照料，像火一样。