The reality is: sometimes you lose. And you're never too good to lose. You're never too big to lose. You're never too smart to lose. It happens.
当你没有看到这朵花时,这朵花和你的心一起归于寂静;当你看到这朵花时,这朵花的颜色便立刻鲜明起来,由此可知这朵花并不在你的心外。
I'm not so interested in how things look as in what they mean.