And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.

高尔夫是一项在五英寸球场上进行的运动——也就是你两耳之间的距离。

The right incentives can turn conflicts into cooperation.

生命中最伟大的事情是保持心灵年轻。

有时候你必须迷失自己，才能找到自己。