The art of diplomacy is to understand desires of others and to find a way, where they think they get what they want.
外交的艺术就是了解别人想要什么,然后找到办法说服他们你可以帮助他们得到它。
如果给我一部时间机器,我会告诉21岁的自己,人的幸福在于知道生活不是一份漂亮的成绩单,你的资历、简历,都不是你的生活,虽然你会碰到很多与我同龄或更老一点的人今天依然还在混淆两者。生活是艰辛的,复杂的,超出任何人的控制能力,而谦恭地了解这一点,将使你历经沧桑后能够更好的生存。
Read, read, read. Read everything — trash, classics, good and bad, and see how they do it. Just like a carpenter who works as an apprentice and studies the master. Read! You'll absorb it. Then write. If it's good, you'll find out. If it's not, throw it out of the window.
你认为你的痛苦和心碎在世界历史上前所未有,但后来你阅读了。
实现明天的唯一限制将是我们今天的怀疑。