降临在我们身上的不幸总是最严重的。
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
韧性不是人们要么有要么没有的特质。它涉及任何人都可以学习和发展的行为、思想和行动。