The safest way to try and get what you want is to try and deserve what you want. It’s such a simple idea. It’s the golden rule so to speak. You want to deliver to the world what you would buy if you were on the other end.

世界是一面镜子，它向你展示你带给它的东西。

心理学必须基于可观察的现象，而非抽象。