现代教育者的任务不是砍伐丛林，而是灌溉沙漠。

The best way to measure how much you've grown isn't by inches or the number of laps you can now run around the track, or even your grade point average - though those things are important, to be sure.It's what you've done with your time, how you've chosen to spend your days, and whom you've touched this year. That, to me, is the greatest measure of success.

译文：对待外人应该宽容大度，但对待自己的子孙后代一定不能宽厚。人情往来一定要周到，但儿女嫁娶之事不必铺张浪费。赏析：父母教育子女一定不能纵容溺爱，否则就是害了孩子一生，正所谓惯子如杀子。父母应该给孩子树立榜样，确立做事原则。嫁女儿一定要选择人品贤良的女婿，一定不要向婆家索要很多聘礼；娶儿媳妇要娶品行端庄、秀外慧中、知书达礼的女子，而不要贪图娘家丰厚的嫁妆。

我能给的最好建议就是做自己，享受乐趣。

"Every frame is a painting, and the camera is your brush."

她像手榴弹一样抓着我的心

The novel is the highest example of subtle inter-relatedness that man has discovered.