The measure of a good book is determined by how much it disturbs the reader.
君子给人的印象有三种变化:远看庄重威严,接触则温和可亲,听讲话则严肃不苟。
It’s possible that a not-so smart person, who can communicate well, can do much better than a super smart person who can’t communicate well. That is good news because it is much easier to improve your communication skills than your intelligence.