过分宠爱会使人变得傲慢,过多的恩惠反而可能引起怨恨!这平衡之道,太微妙了!并且给予恩惠要适度,以免适得其反!
The fact remains that getting people right is not what living is all about anyway. It’s getting them wrong that is living, getting them wrong and wrong and wrong and then, on careful reconsideration, getting them wrong again.