要说“我爱你”,首先必须能够说“我”。
充分发挥人的天性禀赋,发挥得越多越好:运用天性去穷究物理,极尽智力,通达自然,思惟神妙,造就豁达的胸怀和高洁的品德;尽量压抑人的情感欲望,遏制到越少越好:管束自己去谨慎说话,持重办事,约束自身,心地高洁,还要节衣缩食并减少情欲和嗜好。
The fact remains that getting people right is not what living is all about anyway. It's getting them wrong that is living, getting them wrong and wrong and wrong and then, on careful reconsideration, getting them wrong again.
In the end, we are all defined by the choices we make.