Every story has a purpose, and every voice deserves to be heard.
礼义廉耻,可以用来要求自己,不可用来要求别人。要求自己则能少犯过失,要求别人则难以与人和睦相处,难以与他人相处就不合乎处世之道。所以君子只严格要求自己,小人则对别人求全责备。
It's on the strength of observation and reflection that one finds a way. So we must dig and delve unceasingly.