Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.
我不是来讨人喜欢的，我是来做自己的。
我喜欢快乐，我喜欢玩乐。我喜欢和积极快乐的人在一起。
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.