当我们发现保持不变比改变更痛苦时,我们就会改变自己的行为。后果给我们带来痛苦,激励我们去改变。
"When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too."
我们生活在神话之中,有时甚至意识不到这一点。