生命短暂，让它变得甜蜜取决于你。

Taught from infancy that beauty is woman's sceptre, the mind shapes itself to the body, and roaming round its gilt cage, only seeks to adorn its prison.

"The first draft is just you telling yourself the story."

当我们发现保持不变比改变更痛苦时，我们就会改变自己的行为。后果给我们带来痛苦，激励我们去改变。

【释义】：父亲不慈爱，子女就不会孝顺；兄长不友爱，弟弟便不会恭敬。