如果你不能理解某人为什么要做某事,那么看看他们行为的后果,不管他们可能是什么,然后从他们的后果中推断出动机。
If you can't understand why someone is doing something, look at the consequences of their actions, whatever they might be, and then infer the motivations from their consequences.
饮酒的时候做到不胡言乱语才是真正的君子,在钱财上能公平厘清,才是真正的品德优秀;进山不怕伤害人的老虎,生活中就怕人心险恶、两面三刀的人。