了解自己的一个好办法,是认真地觉察他人身上让你讨厌的一切。
A great way to understand yourself is to seriously reflect on everything you find irritating in others. 
当事人应置身于利害之外,提出倡议的人则应设身于利害之中,才能知道利害得失。
Everyting negative ,pressure, challenges – is all an opportunity for me to rise.
The world is everything that is the case.