孩子完全接受——甚至渴望——家规。「在我们家,我们对 X 有一个规矩」是家长设立家庭规范时所需的唯一理由。事实上,「我对 X 有一个规矩」是你给自己设定规范所需的唯一理由。
Children totally accept — and crave — family rules. “In our family we have a rule for X” is the only excuse a parent needs for setting a family policy. In fact, “I have a rule for X” is the only excuse you need for your own personal policies.
The best stories are those that disturb us, that force us to question our certainties.
The idea of transforming a piece of architecture into a piece of art is a misunderstanding.
Every decision we make in extraction echoes for generations.
讨论学问要看其人的品行,讨论政治要考察当时的形势