When someone is nasty， rude， hateful， or mean with you， pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.
当有人对你讨厌、粗鲁、憎恨或刻薄时，假设他们是病人。这使你更容易对他们产生共情，从而缓和冲突。
十分的聪明只用七分就可以了，剩下三分留给子孙；如果要将十分聪明全都使出来，反而会适得其反，近的害了自己，远的害了儿孙。
Success is a lousy teacher. It seduces smart people into thinking they can’t lose.