When someone is nasty, rude, hateful, or mean with you, pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.
当有人对你讨厌、粗鲁、憎恨或刻薄时,假设他们是病人。这使你更容易对他们产生共情,从而缓和冲突。
赏析:指出灵巧的人和聪明的人往往会因为自己的才能而劳累和忧虑,而没有才能的人则没有太多的追求和烦恼。
Don’t be afraid to feel deeply.