When someone is nasty, rude, hateful, or mean with you, pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.
当有人对你讨厌、粗鲁、憎恨或刻薄时,假设他们是病人。这使你更容易对他们产生共情,从而缓和冲突。
Le Bonheur! Sa dent, douce à la mort, m'avertissait au chant du coq, — ad matutinum, au Christus venit, — dans les plus sombres villes.
美感标志着我们邂逅了我们心目中的美好生活的具体表现。《幸福的建筑》
It’s not the manager’s job to prevent risks. It’s the manager’s job to make it safe to take them.