我们听到的言语是我们听不到的言语的指示。它是一种必要的回避,一种暴力的、狡猾的、痛苦的或嘲笑的烟幕,使对方保持在它的位置上。
Boundaries define us. They define what is me and what is not me. A boundary shows me where I end and someone else begins, leading me to a sense of ownership.