如果你做的很好,这是件令人愉快的事。相反的情况,就很令人沮丧。社会学家Emil,Durkheim分析发现,这提高了自杀率,追求个人主义的发达国家的自杀率,高过于世界上其它地方,原因是人们把发生在自己身上的事情,全当作自己的责任,人们拥有成功,也拥有失败。
The difference between a moral man and a man of honor is that the latter regrets a discreditable act even when it has worked.
The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.
我的孩子们教会我,爱是没有极限的。
我们都正走向天堂之路,也通往地狱之门。
Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it.