Flow is being completely involved in an activity for its own sake. The ego falls away. Time flies. Every action, movement, and thought follows inevitably from the previous one, like playing jazz. Your whole being is involved, and you're using your skills to the utmost.

"The act of writing is an act of courage, a defiance against the silence of the universe."

Every family is a haunted house in its own way.

释义：当遭受他人的侮辱时，要能做到面不改色，保持常态；察觉到别人的过失，绝不四处宣扬；发现对方的奸诈意图，也不会因愤怒而立即摊牌。真正的关键在于，要将自己的才能与锋芒隐藏起来，耐心等待最适合行动的时机。一个人若立志成为翱翔天际的苍鹰，就不要去参与枝头鸟雀的无谓争斗。

The key to performance is elegance, not battalions of special cases.