我认为我们在沉默中、在未说出口的话中沟通得非常好,而发生的事情是一种持续的逃避,是绝望的后卫尝试,以保持我们自己。
损失厌恶的概念解释了为什么我们通常更倾向于避免损失而不是获得收益。
我们唯一需要害怕的就是害怕本身。
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.