总要要求一个最后期限。最后期限能够帮你淘汰那些无关紧要的东西。避免追求完美，你必须追求与众不同，与众不同比完美更好。

Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.

Courtesy costs nothing. Lower the toilet seat after use. Let the people in the elevator exit before you enter. Return shopping carts to their designated areas. When you borrow something， return it better shape (filled up， cleaned) than when you got it.