领导力在于让他人因你的存在而变得更好，并确保这种影响在你离开后依然持续。

当你的工作对人们的生活产生积极影响时，真正的成功就来了。

There's a real correlation between a society that tells people that they can do anything, and the existence of low self-esteem. So that's another way in which something quite positive can have a nasty kickback. There is another reason why we might be feeling more anxious --about our careers, about our status in the world today, than ever before. And it's, again, linked to something nice. And that nice thing is called meritocracy.