大家都不了解，女人决定结婚生子时，她的生命一方面开始了，另一方面却结束了。生 活开始充斥琐碎的事，你停下脚步，呆在原地，好让你的孩子能够任意来去。他们离开后，你的生活就空了。你应该再度向前，但你已忘了如何迈步。因为长久以来，都没有人叫你动。你自己也忘了要动。
Nobody understands when a woman makes a choice to marry and have children, in one way her life begins, but in another way, it stops. You build a life of details, and you just stop and stay steady, so that your children can move. And when they leave,they take your life of details with them. You are expected to move on again, but you don't remember what it was that moved you, because no one's asked you in so long.Not even yourself.
书籍是飞机，是火车，是道路。它们是目的地，也是旅程。它们是家。
当你写作时，你试图发现一些你不知道的东西。
The weight of evidence for an extraordinary claim must be proportioned to its strangeness.
夜晚并不总是带来答案，但它总是带来正确的问题。