Nobody understands when a woman makes a choice to marry and have children, in one way her life begins, but in another way, it stops. You build a life of details, and you just stop and stay steady, so that your children can move. And when they leave,they take your life of details with them. You are expected to move on again, but you don't remember what it was that moved you, because no one's asked you in so long.Not even yourself.
大家都不了解，女人决定结婚生子时，她的生命一方面开始了，另一方面却结束了。生 活开始充斥琐碎的事，你停下脚步，呆在原地，好让你的孩子能够任意来去。他们离开后，你的生活就空了。你应该再度向前，但你已忘了如何迈步。因为长久以来，都没有人叫你动。你自己也忘了要动。
The past is never dead. It's not even past.
过去从未消逝，它甚至还未过去。
True intelligence must be able to understand, reason, and make decisions.
愚蠢的人认为说真话很容易；只有艺术家，伟大的艺术家，知道这有多难。
写作中最大的挑战是找到合适的词语来表达无法言说的事物。
成功不是终点，失败也非致命，重要的是继续前进的勇气。