羞耻的基础不是我们的个人错误,而是我们必须成为别人希望我们成为的那种人的耻辱和屈辱。
People who cannot say no, cannot say yes meaningfully either.
"A novel is a mirror carried along a high road. Sometimes it reflects to your eyes the blue of the skies, at others the churned-up mud of the road."
最重要的是你要有一个北极星,你必须知道自己要去哪里。