暴力是无能者的最后手段。

So what I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas, and make sure that we own them; that we are truly the authors of our own ambitions. Because it's bad enough not getting what you want, but it's even worse to have an idea of what it is you want, and find out, at the end of the journey, that it isn't, in fact, what you wanted all along.

你爱得越多，你就能爱得越多——而且你爱得越强烈。

"Memory can make a thing seem to have been much more than it was."