有时候遇到急切之下弄不明白的事情,应当适当宽缓一下,或许自然而然就真相大白了,不要操之过急,那样会使当事人十分恼怒,反而增加了事情的复杂性;有的人急切之下任你怎么劝都不听从,不妨随他的便,不去劝他,他或许自己慢慢就会悔悟,不必要采用强制手段逼迫他听从,那样只能激发他的逆反心理,使他更加冥顽不化。
I try to find the humanity in every character, even if they are doing terrible things.
To truly know the world, look deeply within your own being; to truly know yourself, take real interest in the world.