The truth is balance, but the opposite of truth, which is unbalance, may not be a lie.

"It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it."

找到我，我会和你一起生活。

She's simply too strange. We can't relate to her, she speaks in a funny way, she comes from an odd place. So we can't relate to her, and when you can't relate to somebody, you don't envy them. The closer two people are -- in age, in background, in the process of identification -- the more there's a danger of envy, which is incidentally why none of you should ever go to a school reunion, because there is no stronger reference point than people one was at school with.