The environment will appear different to different observers depending on what they are prepared to see.
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
Don’t say anything about someone in email you would not be comfortable saying to them directly， because eventually they will read it.
在这个充满欺骗的世界里，文字是我唯一信任的武器。