Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.
But man is not made for defeat. A man can be destroyed but not defeated.
孔子说：“一个人如果他的品质胜过文采就会粗野，文采胜过品质就会浮华。只有文采和品质配合恰当，才是君子。”