The dead outnumber the living, and their legacy lives on within us.

When you meet with opposition, even if it should be from your husband or your children, endeavor to overcome it by argument and not by authority, for a victory dependent upon authority is unreal and illusory.

我不听别人说什么，我只是出去尽我所能。

解析：一心在痛上，便无暇顾及他事。