The best way to overcome fear is to face it with courage.
有时候遇到急切之下弄不明白的事情,应当适当宽缓一下,或许自然而然就真相大白了,不要操之过急,那样会使当事人十分恼怒,反而增加了事情的复杂性;有的人急切之下任你怎么劝都不听从,不妨随他的便,不去劝他,他或许自己慢慢就会悔悟,不必要采用强制手段逼迫他听从,那样只能激发他的逆反心理,使他更加冥顽不化。
Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.