谋划事情无主见,就会陷入困境;做事没有准备好,容易归于失败。
Grief is not linear. It doesn't follow a neat trajectory from denial to acceptance.
The reality is: sometimes you lose. And you're never too good to lose. You're never too big to lose. You're never too smart to lose. It happens.
所有的经典都说到,为了获得解脱,人应该让心智安静;所以它们的最终教导就是心智应该被安静下来;一旦理解了这一点,就不需要没完没了地阅读经典了。