独处的能力就是爱的能力。这对你来说可能看起来矛盾，但其实不是。这是一个存在的真理：只有那些能够独处的人才能爱，才能分享，才能深入另一个人的内心深处——而不占有对方，不依赖对方，不将对方物化，不对对方上瘾。

永远不要让任何人告诉你你做不到某件事。

It is remarkable how much long-term advantage people like us have gotten by trying to be consistently not stupid, instead of trying to be very intelligent.

What we gain by experience is more real and more solid than what we gain by reasoning.

Winning medals wasn't the point of the Olympics. It's the participating that counts.

领导力就是做出艰难的决定并坚持到底。