世界上没有绝对的对与错，只有适合不适合。

And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.

我们可以轻易地原谅一个孩子怕黑；但成人怕光是人生的真正悲哀。

古往今来的平庸之人，都是因为懒惰而失败；古往今来的有才之人，都是因为骄傲而失败。