I will hazard a prediction. When you are 80 years old, and in a quiet moment of reflection narrating for only yourself the most personal version of your life story, the telling that will be most compact and meaningful will be the series of choices you have made. In the end, we are our choices. Build yourself a great story.
孔子说:“人的本性是相近的,只是习俗使人有了差别。”
"The world is full of stories, but only a few are worth telling."
I'm not a person who likes to be in the middle.