冤家宜解不宜结，各自回头看后头。
译文：有仇的冤家应该和睦相处，不应该继续结仇，都回头看下自己的不足。赏析：多一个敌人不是多一个朋友，冤家过多对我们的人生并没有好处。在发生矛盾时，我们都反思一下自己的言行是否得当，各退让一步，天地自然变宽了。
The self is not found in isolation but in relationship.
"Acting is not about being someone different. It's finding the similarity in what is apparently different, then finding myself in there."
我从不试图预测市场；我只是试图为它所做的任何事情做好准备。
Architecture is not about creating objects, but about creating relationships.