父兄有善行，子弟学之或不肖；父兄有恶行，子弟学之则无不肖。可知父兄教子弟，必正其身以率之，无庸徒事言词也。
赏析：父辈或兄长有良好的行为，子弟们未必学得很像，但是父辈或兄长有恶劣的行径，子弟们一学就会。所以，我们从中知道，父辈或兄长教导子弟，必须先要以身作则，做好表率，这比口头的说教管用。赏析：为人父母，要想教育好孩子，最好的方式就是言传身教，以身作则，正人先正己。勿以善小而不为，勿以恶小而为之。孩子良好的品行要从点滴的小事做起。
环境支配人；人不能支配环境。
I think that's the single most important thing about writing: it's about making the familiar strange and the strange familiar.
The whole conviction of my life now rests upon the belief that loneliness, far from being a rare and curious phenomenon, peculiar to myself and to a few other solitary men, is the central and inevitable fact of human existence.
The world is a mirror, reflecting our deepest fears and desires.
往事会自行爬上来。