In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?
为了避免批评，什么也不做，什么也不说，什么也不是。
不要害怕失败，因为失败是成功的垫脚石。
所以君子努力做事就会日渐强大,安于嗜欲就日渐苟且,恭敬庄重就日益繁盛。
男孩需要被拥抱和呵护，不仅仅是在他们小的时候，而是贯穿他们的一生。
Be yourself, everyone else is already taken.
命里有时肯定会有，命里没有的不必强求，