Read not to contradict and confute; nor to believe and take for granted; nor to find talk and discourse; but to weigh and consider.
礼义廉耻,可以用来要求自己,不可用来要求别人。要求自己则能少犯过失,要求别人则难以与人和睦相处,难以与他人相处就不合乎处世之道。所以君子只严格要求自己,小人则对别人求全责备。
The more you hide, the more you show.